Kate
is turning 30 on June 17th! Help celebrate her 30th birthday by
donating 30 dollars to The Little Engine That Could. Our goal is 30
donors donating 30 dollars. This $900 will allow us to finish our STATE
501c3 paperwork, ($400), keep the website running for another year,
($300) and provide a boxcar to three or four hospitals. Of course we
would love to exceed 30 donors too. Donating is easy, just use the
button at the top of the site
Our Story:
Kate
Zajac was inspired to start The Little Engine That Could at the age of
23 when her childhood friend's last suicide attempt, of many made during
the course of their ten-year relationship, was unfortunately
successful. Kate's friend spent much of her short life in inpatient
pediatric mental health units. She often found these places lacking in
appropriately stimulating things to pass the time between therapy
sessions. This was particularly irksome to Kate because she had been
hospitalized herself for physical issues due to her Cerebral Palsy in
one of the medical centers in question . Kate knew that the other
pediatric units boasted well-stocked and comfortable playrooms with toys
for play, art, and music therapy.. Kate was often angry when she
thought of her friend dealing with the agonies of severe depression, and
later bipolar disorder, without the oasis of a playroom. When Kate's
friend died Kate vowed that she would create the opportunities for
recreational therapy for hospitalized mentally ill children that her
friend had never had and always yearned for.
For a
variety of personal reasons, chief among them being her own grief over
her friend's untimely passing, the idea was shelved for four years until
Kate came across Clarity Child Guidance Center as a case study in a
book about how to write effective fund raising materials that she was
reading for her job at another non-profit. Intrigued, Kate contacted the
Clarity Child Guidance Center and The Little Engine That Could was
reborn. For a list of donations we have made to Clarity Child Guidance
Center and other hospitals to date please visit the Testimonials page.
For more information about where your
donation goes, (and no it will not get sucked down a black hole), please
read the blog post "Money ,Money, Money....Mon-ey."
Kate has 18 years of experience working for not-for-profits, starting during a 2 year stint as a Washtenaw County United Way poster child from 1992-1994.She has also worked with: Great Commission Air, PAWS
With a Cause, The American Cancer Society, The Association for African
Charities, Plan U.S.A and the Ann Arbor Center for Independent Living.
Thank you to everyone who made our March 6th Big Boy fundraiser a success, we raised $200, allowing us to defray the cost of running the website and send boxcars to New York,Arizona and Massachusetts.
Thomas Edison on serving others
The key to becoming successful is to figure out what others need, then fulfilling that need incredibly well.
“I never perfected an invention that I did not think about in
terms of the service it might give others… I find out what the world
needs, then I proceed to invent.” – Thomas Edison
If you spend some time thinking about all of the innovations that
mankind has seen over its history, almost all of them directly resulted
from someone identifying a need or a strong desire and figuring out a
way to fulfill it. It’s all about serving others.
Thank you Trent Hamm and Thomas Alva Edison! Here's more wisdom about community service from Trent.
Every single time I engage in some form of community service, I feel
extremely happy about what I’ve done. I feel like I’ve caused some sort
of positive change in my community and made someone else’s life better.
The problem is that it’s incredibly easy for me to put aside some of
the things I could do related to community service and instead do other
things. I could head over to the food pantry… or I could make chop all
of the vegetables for a great ratatouille. I could pack up the children
and help remove snow for elderly people… or I could go inside, make
some hot chocolate, and watch The Incredibles with my kids.
Although the “right” choice here is very fulfilling, it’s often hard to do in the face of temptation.
This year, I’m simply striving to make the “right” choice more of a routine.
?
What I’m essentially committing to is about four hours per week – on
average – of such volunteer work, with a couple weeks for travel and the
like.
I’ll be keeping track of this time in a spreadsheet, just so that I
know I’m keeping pace with this goal. If our winter turns snowy, it’s
likely that I’ll get significantly ahead earlier in the year. This does
provide some breathing room for periods in the summer when there are
reduced opportunities and different time constraints.
Why do this? Volunteer work makes a better community, and a better
community makes a better life for those who live in it. It also leaves
me feeling better about myself every time I do it. That’s reason enough for me.
As the founder of a small charity I applaud Trent. If I had just ONE person in the Ann Arbor area make this commitment to me, depending on their skill set, here are some things I would like to see happen: the website and blog would get updated more frequently, we could coordinate one more major fundraiser or I could depend on someone to assemble and deliver all care packages. All of this would help out immeasurably.I may not NEED you for four hours every week, but just knowing you were willing to make a steady commitment would mean a lot.
Words of Wisdom From My Facebook Feed, thanks Molly and Meghan!
blah,
blah, blah... insert some junk about how awesome/sad/crazy 2011 was and
how 2012 is going to be so much better. Who cares! I'm not pinning my
hopes on a regular day because I'll now be writing .../12 instead of
.../11. "You must be the change you want to see in the world." -Mahatma
Gandhi
This feeling is what I wish for our kids....
I
was born to catch dragons in their dens and pick flowers. To tell tales
and laugh away the morning. To drift and dream like a lazy stream and
walk barefoot across sunshine days. [James Kavanaugh.
Sage words.....
You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you do not trust enough.” – Frank Crane
I can't wait to start going to Northridge Church when I move! Love this post on my wall, had to share it with you all.
Genuine
love is characterized by acceptance rather than rejection,
understanding rather than judgement, cooperation rather than dominance
and commitment rather than convenience
Articles of Interest
Unfortunately,
much of what people
think
they know about bipolar disorder is
not accurate. It’s easy to absorb bipolar misconceptions, especially
given the extreme behaviors portrayed on TV and in movies. But it’s
important to learn the facts.
Bipolar: Myth vs. Truth
Myth:
Bipolar disorder is not a real illness.
Truth:
Bipolar disorder is a highly treatable, but cyclical, genetic illness
that can be controlled. “The perception [of bipolar disorder] should be
in the same vein as other chronic illnesses," says Suresh Sureddi, MD,
an assistant professor of psychiatry at the University of Texas
Southwestern Medical Center in Dallas and a director of Lifepath
Systems, a community mental health clinic in Plano, Texas. Dr. Sureddi
explains that it helps to remember that bipolar disorder is a chronic
illness, like congestive heart failure or diabetes, which sometimes
results in patients having to be hospitalized and needing ongoing
treatment.
Myth: Once you are diagnosed with bipolar disorder, your
life as you've known it is over, and you won’t be able to achieve your
goals.
Truth:
Although there is no cure for
bipolar, many people with the disorder are able to control their
condition. “I can’t tell you how devastating it was to believe my life
was over,” says Larry Fricks, vice president of peer services for the
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance. Fricks was diagnosed with
bipolar disorder in 1984 and later profiled in
Strong at the Broken
Places,
by Richard M. Cohen. “But you don’t have to have your life
taken over by a mental illness," Fricks says. "You’re still a person
with hopes and dreams and you can get those. Bipolar disorder has a very
high recovery rate if you are proactive about managing your illness.”
Myth: People with bipolar disorder cannot keep a job or
serve in a position of authority.
Truth:
A
person’s job performance does not have to be affected by bipolar
disorder. “A lot of people with bipolar disorder hold high-functioning
jobs. They become lawyers, doctors, scientists, engineers,” Sureddi
says. By managing bipolar disorder with medications and positive
lifestyle habits, such as adhering to regular schedules and sleep
habits, they are able to live very stable and productive lives.
Myth: Bipolar disorder defines who you are.
Truth:
“I have bipolar disorder. I am
not
bipolar. There’s a big
difference,” says Kristin Finn, the author of
Bipolar and Pregnant,
a mental health advocate, and a member of the speakers bureau of the
Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance. Finn was diagnosed with bipolar
disorder in 1979 and is the mother of a 17-year-old who also has
bipolar disorder. “Just as my next door neighbor may have cancer but
wouldn’t say ‘I am cancer.’ I think it’s important not to define
yourself by the condition.”
Myth: If someone has bipolar disorder, all their moods are a
product of the condition.
Truth:
People
with bipolar disorder have moods and feelings just like everyone else,
and their moods are not always connected to the illness. Sureddi says
family members sometimes think that once a loved one has been diagnosed
with bipolar disorder, the condition cannot be stabilized, so any
misspoken word or perceived misdeed is blamed on the fact that that
person has bipolar disorder. Finn agrees, adding that her daughter feels
that she’s not allowed to just have a bad day. When she’s upset about
something, those around her assume she’s having a bipolar episode. It's
important to remember that that's not always the case.
Myth: Everybody who has bipolar disorder has wide mood
swings, going from very depressed to super manic and out of control.
Truth:
While that range of mood symptoms does exist, not all people living
with bipolar disorder experience symptoms that way. Some people have
predominantly depressive episodes, with very few, mild symptoms of
mania, called hypomania. Sureddi says people can have bipolar disorder
symptoms for 10 or 12 years before they are diagnosed, because the
symptoms of mania are not prominent and are therefore missed.
Myth: Once you’re feeling better, you can stop taking your
bipolar disorder medications.
Truth:
When
people living with bipolar disorder decide they'll be fine without
medications and stop treatment, the mood cycles start again.
"Medications are necessary to maintain an active lifestyle,” says
Sureddi. “Just as with other chronic illnesses, bipolar disorder
requires ongoing treatment, without which symptoms only get worse rather
than better.”
The more you know about bipolar disorder, the more you can help stop
the spread of these misconceptions. “What you believe about mental
illness may be more disabling than the illness itself,” Fricks says. If
you would like more information about bipolar disorder, visit the
and the
.
You can also find more in the Everyday Health
.
By Madeline Vann:
If you haven’t created a personal favorite relaxation playlist, here's a good reason to do so: Healing music can help you
fight stress, find comfort, and
manage pain.
And if you want an additional release through music therapy, put down
your earbuds and pick up a drum! Getting your groove on enhances the
effect of healing music.
Healing Music: Creating Your Personal Playlist
Start by identifying music that soothes you and helps you feel
comfortable. Feeling obligated to include a little classical music? Only
do so if it really works for you. Whether you like Mozart, Johnny Cash,
or Aerosmith, the music that most helps you relax is a highly personal
decision.
“What people say soothes them, soothes them, even if it’s heavy
metal,” says music therapist Joanne Loewy, DA, director of the Louis
Armstrong Center for Music and Medicine at Beth Israel Medical Center in
New York City. “The most important aspect is how it is incorporated in
your life.”
Healing Music: Finding a Music Therapist
If you aren’t sure what healing music suits you, Loewy recommends
working with one of the 5,000 trained music therapists across the
country. A music therapist can evaluate your taste and interests and
make some recommendations in one visit.
For example, says Loewy, a shy person might benefit from “lilting”
music that can be integrated with breathing rhythms, while a more
expressive person might want to include vibrations such as gongs or
drumming in their music therapy. As a personal test to see which
personality type you more closely fit into, Loewy says you should ask
yourself what you do when you stub your toe: Grin and bear it or curse
and yell!
Healing Music: Grooving in Labor
Women planning vaginal childbirth are usually encouraged to bring
along music that will help them relax during their labor; some women
even hire musicians to provide live accompaniment.
“The way that music seems to be helpful is either as a distraction,
where the mind creates images, or as an integration to more actively
create breaths,” says Loewy, who recommends a mix of fast and slow music
to support the breathing changes of labor. “It’s also used as a release
of pain during labor.”
Focusing on rhythmic music, inviting a drummer into the delivery
room, or even beating out a rhythm with a free hand can interrupt the
cycle of pain to provide release, says Loewy.
And don’t underestimate the benefit of control over your labor.
Women generally recall the birth experience as positive in proportion to
the amount of control they felt over their experience.
Having a supportive spouse is important of course, but the feeling
of empowerment women gain from being able to choose music or the
position in which they labor makes a significant difference in the birth
experience.
Healing Music: Keeping the Beat
You don’t have to be a musician to appreciate playing a musical
instrument or drum. The ability of rhythm to ease pain has been noted
among patients in cancer wards and nursing homes, and it could even
counter painful menstrual cramps or other daily aches.
Simply joining a drum circle — an informal gathering of people for the
purpose of creating rhythm — can extend the pain-fighting benefits by:
- Increasing relaxation
- Reducing loneliness
- Providing emotional release
- Enhancing a spiritual connection
Healing Music: Music Therapy and Your Health
Here are some other direct connections between music and health:
- Healing music protects the heart.
A study of 10 healthy adults in their mid-thirties showed that their
blood flowed 26 percent more easily when they were listening to music
they defined as joyful, an increase in blood flow similar to aerobic
activity. Listening to music can’t replace a workout, but appears to be
good for the heart. And if high blood pressure
is a concern, try this prescription: at least 12 minutes of Mozart
three times a week can help lower your blood pressure, according to
another study.
- Music therapy fights addiction. Participating in group music-making can help people struggling with addiction find relaxation, social connection, and emotional release.
So
go compose that playlist, or fill up your iPod or CD changer with your
favorite musical selections: This is an amazingly easy and entertaining
way to combat stress and boost your overall sense of well-being.
With many insurance companies only paying for 55% of psychiatric care, be sure these mistakes don't add to your medical bills.Thanks to Amanda Buchanen of The Motley Fool.
1 Double Billing
This is most likely an innocent mistake, hospitals are big entities and it's not uncommon for two departments to bill for the same thing inadvertently. Just because these mistakes are innocent DON'T make them less costly for you, so double check your bill.
2 Bills for services you never used or received.
Once again this is usually just a faux pas and relatively minor, such as being charged for a dose of medication the patient never actually got. If you can, designate a responsible adult to make sure you are only billed for services rendered. This is easier to do for short term or outpatient medical experiences than longer inpatient ones, but even one error prevented could save you serious money.
3 Up coding and up selling.
You're diagnosed and treated with the flu, yet billed for bronchitis. Google search the codes on your bill to be sure they're correct.
4 Excessive fees.
OK, you're not a medical professional, but the hospital seems to be grossly overcharging you. Ask them why, and come armed with statistics from the physician fee schedule search tool from the Centers for Medicaid and Medicare Services website to compare the average cost of similar procedures nationwide. Remember, the worst possible consequence that comes from challenging your bill is that you're still responsible for the current charges. If your arguments are denied you're at least no worse off than you were when you received the bill.
5 Out of network doctors
Yes, your hospital may be in your insurance network, but doctors are often independent contractors, not employees of said hospital. So it's very possible you could be treated by a physician outside of your insurance network, and unless you ask specifically you may not know until you get your bill. Once again designate a responsible adult to ask these questions,preferably in advance of your or your child's hospital experience.
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